Kelly Barnhart, CRS, ABR
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Take Back your Power!

Posted on November 26, 2009
  

It is time to let go of the economy and take control of your existence. You can either give away your power to; the economy, the market or the story of the day. Giving away personal power is giving away your control, hope and happiness. There is always a story for why things aren't going well. Today, this moment, take your power back!

 Personal power is the ability to achieve what you want. More than anything else, it is personal power that brings you success and happiness. There have been some that have felt powerless in the economic climate of the past months.

 Power is a multi-faceted concept. You experience a sense of personal power when you feel in control of your life. Power is the ability to achieve goals. It is also the ability to influence others. Considerable power comes from the ability to communicate. Power includes enthusiasm and optimism. Your energy level is related to your power. You have personal power when you are the master of your destiny. Power is related to self-esteem and confidence. The freer you are, the more you tend to experience your power.

         ·        We give away our power - people can't take it without our perrmission
   
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    We allow people and things to have an unhealthy level of control and influence in our life

·        Getting angry, bitter and/or resentful at others will fix nothing.

·        Positive change starts with awareness, understanding and acknowledgement

·        The situation will change when you change. 

 

Take back your personal Power by following these steps:
 
1.      Challenge Yourself.  All too often our desire to live a comfortable, painless, easy and safe existence (all things driven by fear) is the very thing that kills our potential, our productivity, our ability to develop and ultimately, our spirit. In order to take back your power you will need to be courageous. Being courageous is a choice. Be prepared to be uncomfortable and understand that is part of the growth process and part of taking back your power.   Personal power is doing what you need to do to make your dreams come true. Many times this means doing something different than you are doing now!  Otherwise you will keep getting the same results!
 
2.      Face your fears. You can never take back your power until you confront the things that scare you. Being fearful does not represent weakness but rather humanity. Fear is something we can use for our personal development. Fear is personal. We all have our own personal fears. Today choose two of those fears to face. These fears can range from learning a new technology to bungee jumping. 
 
3.      Substitute gratitude for envy. There is always someone or something that is bigger and better. This is a losing game. Focus on gratitude for all that you have been blessed with; health, friendship, professional associates and peace. The only antidote for envy is appreciation.

 4.      Take control of your health. Exercise. The kind of exercise that empowers you is the kind that lets mind and body sing together as one. Find the exercise that induces a positive mental state and that is enjoyable to you. Maybe walking is empowering to you because you are expanding the scope of your surroundings. Yoga can bring tone and strength to mind and body. For some it is a game of tennis or golf. 

 5.      Get Inspired and Inspire others. Surround yourself with others who inspire and challenge you. Working together with like minded committed and inspired individuals is exciting and productive. 

"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, It is the only thing that ever has."

Margaret Mead
 
6.      Enhance and protect your brand   Associate with people, organizations, situations and products that enhance your reputation and that are visionary.   In the professional world your brand is your power. Your company brand should empower you with the latest tools, technology and marketing to enhance your business. 

7. Keep re-inventing yourself. Being stagnant and inflexible in a dynamic world is a sure-fire way to become redundant, unnecessary and powerless. While your core values, beliefs and standards might remain constant, it is important that you continue to adapt

Be thankful for what you have; you'll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough. "
Oprah Winfrey

 

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